I was never able and will be never able to remember the difference between Miss and Ms and Mrs, I find this concept to be obsolete and thus so much like the languages that do not have such differentiation. At least online shops should have neutral options like “Dear” or “” for those kind of people like me.
I know this is late, but happy birthday, Mary. Thank you for being near even from afar and in spite of nothing, you are really a good friend! I am sure that all the difficulties you may have will be solved, this was that way all the time and no point exists for it to be otherwise. Sorry for being late.